As a leather Dom and unapologetic sadist, my approach to BDSM is rooted in creative depravity—guiding submissives toward a space of surrender to what once felt unspeakable or unattainable. My role as a Dominant is often to hold up the mirror and say, “I see you.” I aim to create a space where people feel supported in their authentic selves, even as they surrender—

to serve me through pain, suffering, servitude, domestication, sexual slavery, worship, devotion, and obedience—

whether through taming or by explicitly receiving orders to do so. I command respect. Sadism brings me joy, laughter & entertainment.

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I am a bisexual & queer, hairy trans man, with XS hands, fully post op with saline balls, a free-standing hard t-dick, & cunt. My pronouns are he/they. 

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My BDSM practice is grounded in continual development, education, and growth.
My primary experience and interests lie in S/M, edge play, hard kinks, and the use of headspaces to deepen and heighten experiences.

For the past four years, I have walked this path as a Dominant, drawn to scenes shaped by intention and connection, anchored in a deep commitment to evolution, integrity, and the art of ethically executed power exchange, sexual control, and consensual violence. Developed through workshops, mentorship, lived experience, and study.

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My Topping is guided by a foundational ethic:

Mastery is not static—it is an ongoing practice of refinement, study, and transformation.​

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Some Of My Kinks 

(& in addition to Artistic Objectification Service)

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Developed Professional Qualities and Skills as a Dominant

 

Ethical and Accountability-Based Practice

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• Deep commitment to ethical practice and informed consent.

• Strong sense of accountability and responsibility within and beyond play.

• Practices radical acceptance of emotions, mistakes, and reality.

• Demonstrates emotional maturity, reflection, and self-awareness.

• Actively engages in rupture and repair processes rather than avoidance or defensiveness.

• Grounded in compassion-based and non-violent communication principles.

• Maintains balanced ego awareness, free from overinflation or self-punishment.

• Integrates trauma-informed care and risk awareness into every aspect of practice.
   

Psychological Awareness and Mental Health Knowledge

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• Comprehensive understanding of trauma responses, dissociation, and stress physiology.

• Informed awareness of neurodivergence, including Autism and ADHD, and how sensory needs influence play.

• Trained in psychological first aid and emotional regulation techniques.

• Knowledgeable in shame theory, trauma loops, and cognitive distortions.

• Integrates somatic CBT, DBT, and mindfulness practices into personal and professional growth.

• Monitors and manages Drop, emotional bleed, and post-scene processing with partners.

• Applies embodied consent through close attunement to physical, emotional, and verbal cues.

• Conducts post-scene debriefs to support emotional integration and reflection.
   

Risk, Safety, and Scene Management

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• Advanced skill set in edge play, blood play, and psychological play.

• Trained in biohazard and blood pathogen control and safe cleaning practices.

• Certified knowledge in first aid and sterile play technique.

• Applies multiple risk frameworks, including PRICK, RACK, RAKA, CARE, CCCC, and TICK.

• Practitioner using risk budgeting (tolerance, capacity, and need).

• Highly organised in scene preparation, setup, and pacing.

• Skilled in reading and responding to verbal and non-verbal safewords or signals.

• Proficient in stress regulation and grounding during high-intensity or edge scenes.

• Experienced in scaling intensity appropriately and maintaining awareness throughout play.

• Uses structured, mindful pauses and check-ins to ensure ongoing consent.
   

Communication and Relational Dynamics

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• Clear, transparent, and grounded communicator.

• Deep empathic attunement to partners’ emotional and physical states.

• Collaborative and ongoing negotiation processes before, during, and after play.

• Uses feedback loops to support real-time adjustment and safety.

• Encourages shared responsibility and mutual awareness through embodied & informed consent.

• Skilled listener with strong emotional intelligence and presence.

• Creates safe spaces for vulnerability, connection, and post-scene recovery.
   

Ongoing Growth, Education, and Mentorship

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• Committed to continual education and self-development in kink, trauma, and psychology.

• Active participant in workshops focused on risk management, accountability, and shame processing.

• Special interest in psychological edge play, CNC, hard kinks, blood play and needle play.

• Mentor to developing players and community members interested in responsible kink.

• Developer of educational tools, journal guides, and Drop integration resources.

• Building a knowledge base for trauma-informed and psychologically grounded BDSM education for dissociative conditions.

• Maintains a healthy balance between professional, kink, and vanilla life.
   

Regulation, Grounding, and Emotional Mastery

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• Skilled in breathwork, grounding, and self-regulation techniques.

• Monitors for and manages physiological activation during play.

• Practices mindfulness and self-compassion daily.

• Engages in regular reflective and compassion-based practices.

• Emotionally grounded and self-regulated throughout high-intensity dynamics.

• Capable of repairing ruptures and facilitating repair for others.

• All approaches play with empathy, humility, and psychological awareness.
   

Creative, Educational, and Reflective Practice

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• Maintains both a BDSM and a vanilla journal as part of reflective practice.

• Develops resources to promote ethical growth, self-awareness, and resilience in others.

• Experienced in translating psychological and trauma-informed principles into accessible education.

• Currently authoring a journal prompt workbook for the BDSM community.

• Dedicated to advancing education on trauma awareness, ethics, and consent within kink.