About Us

Getting started in BDSM, the Gay Kink Community, and the Edge Play scene in 2022, I began studying and practising as a dom and sadist, drawing on personal experience, workshops, mentorships and driven by a commitment to fostering creative freedom, bodily autonomy, and informed, risk-aware decision-making.

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As a trans man and neurodivergent individual, I grew up navigating a world full of barriers—systemic prejudice at home, in education, and throughout social institutions made it difficult to find confidence or feel capable. Yet, even as a child, I found hope in spaces that allowed me to exist and express myself freely, like youth centres, adventure playgrounds and lunchtime art clubs. Those early experiences of creative freedom laid the foundation for my academic journey, culminating in a master’s dissertation on the therapeutic power of visual art. My research explored how art enables disabled individuals to reclaim agency, communicate beyond limitations, and leave an empowering mark on the world.

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But after finishing my master’s, life threw significant challenges my way, leaving me feeling lost and stuck. I needed something new—something to help me step outside of myself and reclaim my sense of purpose.

That search brought me to the gay leatherman and edge play community in 2022, where I discovered how performance, play, relationships, and community-building could help neurodivergent, disabled, and abled-bodied people alike find confidence and autonomy in their daily lives. In kink and BDSM dynamics, I found structure, routine, and a space where we could show up fully, without shame or denial—where every part of our identities was not just seen but embraced.

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This journey inspired me to run for Puppy Handler UK 2023, centring disability-informed care models within kink spaces. I focused on offering tailored support for neurodivergent individuals at events and reimagining how carers can support disabled and neurodiverse “pups” in community settings. Placing second only deepened my motivation, leading me to move beyond theory and academia into real-world, embodied practice.

BDSM became my way forward—a space where control, surrender, and trust intersect to create freedom, empowerment, and authentic self-expression.

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In my work and service, I do not discriminate based on age (21+), disability, neurodivergence (including plurality), race, ethnicity, sexuality, body type, or gender. I welcome clients of all backgrounds and those with limited experience in play. My approach as a dom, sadist, and artist is highly adaptable, designed to meet each individual’s needs and desires. I’m active in spaces like Hunter & Rawhide in London and Blood Sweat & Tears in the West Midlands, and I frequently attend workshops to stay engaged and informed.

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I’m an edge player—an unapologetically hard & nasty one. I won’t kink-shame you; that would be hypocritical. Instead, I’ll nurture your limits, keeping you grounded and supported every step of the way.

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Outside of BDSM, kink, and art, my passions include activism, community-building, psychology, mental health, adaptation, social mobilisation, culture, film, care and ethics, human rights, and intersectionality.